From the Imitation of Christ, Chapter Ten. Avoid the tumultuous talk of the world. A lot of talk about worldly things becomes a hindrance. Even when such talk is innocent it puts our focus on trivial matters. Learn to create meaningful conversations.
Consider how often we regret worldly things we said. And consider how often we regret not talking about something more meaningful with a friend. Afterward, you realize that they might have a need you could have discussed, and you could have helped them. Sometimes we talk about pointless things just because we want to have some friendly interaction. But a friendship is more rewarding if we talk about good or useful things. Learn to push through the initial discomfort of bringing up something meaningful. Otherwise, the conversation leaves us feeling empty afterward.
Remember that our happiness is found in relationships, with God and others. Conversations are the primary way we can develop fulfilling relationships. If you are feelings lonely or depressed, it is likely that you lack encouraging, fulfilling relationships. You can avoid this if you intentionally create meaningful conversations.
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt” Colossians 4:6 (NIV)
Try to speak words that edify. Don’t just talk about the usual things people talk about. The best kind of meaningful conversations are spiritual conversations. Try to find spiritual friends who want to talk about spiritual things, though not in a false religious way. Spiritual conversation is a treasured aid to growth.
How many times in the last week have you engaged in a meaningful conversation? How many times have you purposely steered a conversation toward something meaningful? Is there anyone in your life you would like to have a meaningful conversation with? What words can you use to create a particular meaningful conversation you would like to have?
